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Are You Serious Dude? Things Men Do That Women Hate (Pt. 1)

**Please welcome back to the stage Miss K.K. for another guest post.  In your many years of dating the gentler, fairer and I daresay, better sex, you may have come across many instances in which you were sorely befuddled by the consternation of your ‘Boo thang’. Could it be as simple as women are just too complex, or […] - Black man and woman embrace

YGM! When Is The Right Time To Introduce Bae To Your Child?

Dear Opinionated Male, Before I start I just wanted to let you guys know I enjoy your articles, very thought out and germane. I hadn’t heard of you guys until a very close acquaintance told me about this site so I decided to check you guys out and I must say I am impressed. Awesome! […]

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Empower Yourself – 5 Key Steps To ‘Having It All’ As A Young Woman

[Admin Note:  Today’s featured guest post is brought to you by the letters Q-U-E-E… Ladies and gentlemen, please give another warm Opinionated Male welcome to Queen Sierra.] What is the definition of ‘having it all’ as a young woman? Raised by an incredible black mama I have been encouraged to believe that I am a super woman […]

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The Moment A Woman Realizes She’s In Love

 [Admin Note: Today’s featured guest post is brought to you by Miss. KK. Enjoy!] ‘Midnight Interlude‘ Lying next to me, hearing you breathe Sets me at ease… I draw back the sheets to admire you, your masculinity Drawn to how different you are from me Your body calls, eliciting a sweet response in the form of kisses […]

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The # 1 Reason It Might Be Cheaper To Keep Her, And It May Surprise You

In my decades on this planet I have gone through, seen, and heard my share of growing pains dealing with the trials and tribulations of the opposite sex. “It’s cheaper to keep her” I heard this expression when I was in high school. To be totally frank, I don’t remember the root of the conversation […]

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Caught Up in The Rapture of Roses: The Danger In Losing Sight of Your Dreams

Surprise! Surprise! It’s the return of the penmen, Mr. SoBo and Cortonio. We are back in the building. Ready, writing, and as raw as ever; and toting a few new surprises as well. But we’ll get to that later. First thing’s first. In response to the number of emails (and texts) we have received over the months from many […]