Rants & Randomness

Don’t renege my N*g!  7 life saving Spades tips to avoid getting your head bust to the white meat

Don’t renege my N*g! 7 life saving Spades tips to avoid getting your head bust to the white meat

[**Editor’s note: That has got to be the bougie’est looking spades game I have ever seen. Almost a little too bougie. Im side eyeing the woman in pink. Can’t trust them excessively low, easy access neckline wearing for a ‘friendly’ game of cards chicks. I’m 99.9% sure she is hiding a razor in her brassiere. You know…just in case. […]

Caught Up in The Rapture of Roses: The Danger In Losing Sight of Your Dreams

Caught Up in The Rapture of Roses: The Danger In Losing Sight of Your Dreams

Surprise! Surprise! It’s the return of the penmen, Mr. SoBo and Cortonio. We are back in the building. Ready, writing, and as raw as ever; and toting a few new surprises as well. But we’ll get to that later. First thing’s first. In response to the number of emails (and texts) we have received over the months from many […]

“I Wish You Would Die!”: Worst Kinds of Arguments All Couples Should Avoid

“I Wish You Would Die!”: Worst Kinds of Arguments All Couples Should Avoid

There’s nothing more commonplace in a relationship than disagreements (Unless you two share a brain. And that’s not healthy…..to ME anyway. I can’t speak for or on anyone else). There are some disagreements that end when both parties simply agree to disagree. There are simple debates, and then there are outright arguments. Truth be told, they can […]

11 Things Every Man Should Have In His Home

11 Things Every Man Should Have In His Home

So here you are. You’ve finally moved out of your folks home and got yourself a new pad. No more rules, curfews, answering to anyone (maybe the land lord). You don’t have to share anything, worry about where your things are or who has borrowed them. Nothing. While we are all somewhat dependent on the […]

Yesteryear’s Values vs Today’s Culture: Rants On Shacking, Sexing & Children’ing Before Marriage

Yesteryear’s Values vs Today’s Culture: Rants On Shacking, Sexing & Children’ing Before Marriage

“Why buy the cow if you can get the milk for free”. “Boys shack up, men provide a home”. We’ve all heard the old clichés and idioms involving the norms of society when it comes to people and relationships. Have you ever stopped and wondered to yourself if the old-fashioned norms and ways are still […]

Love Or Money – Which Has More Value In Your Relationship?

Love Or Money – Which Has More Value In Your Relationship?

Guy #1: “Yo I’m telling you relationships and marriage, especially marriages are investments”. Guy #2: “Dawg what are you talking about? You’re jaded man, marriage is and should be based on love…not money”. Guy #1: “No think about it, a marriage is like a business because…” This was a conversation I was involved in but […]

You Can’t Fire Me, I Quit!! 8 Signs You Hate Your Job

You Can’t Fire Me, I Quit!! 8 Signs You Hate Your Job

Congratulations your hired! Your first day on the new gig is always full of excitement and anticipation. You arrive early to make that great impression and you’ve met your boss, colleagues and  everyone seems relatively nice and professional. After making rounds and introductions, you’re led to your new work station. Sure it’s not much, but you’ve […]