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    The Black Folk’s Guide to Summertime Cookouts

    June 13, 2017 /

    Summer is fast approaching and the weather is ripe for some outdoor cooking, and I’m sure before the Fall, you would have hosted or went to about a half dozen cookouts (barbecues). I’m also sure you will have plenty of stories to share from which drunk uncle acted up, who flipped the table over in spades, who ‘put their foot’ in the BBQ chicken, down to who dressed scantily clad. However there’s rules and levels to attending BBQ’s. So allow me to share some tips if you please to help you avoid being a bigger jerk than the chicken.   Proper Cookout Etiquette (The Do’s)   BRING SOMETHING OR ASK…

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    October 12, 2014 /

    Here’s an exchange between two people that I witnessed  a few days ago: Person 1: “Yo shut the fcuk up. Get up outta my face!” Person 2:  “What ni**a? Fcuk you! Eh yo suck my di*k lame a$$ ni**a”! Was this an exchange between: A) Two men B) A man and a woman If you guessed ‘B’ you’re right. The harsh proposition for oral sex was actually done by the woman in the argument. Yes, readers she told this brother to suck her di*k. And I think it’s safe to say that we’ve all been exposed one way or another to similar types of exchanges. You ever see the woman…

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    Is Your Manhood in Check? Things That Make a Man Look Weak

    July 5, 2013 /

    Men in general since the beginning of time have been instilled with the the gene to be the provider, protector, and that stubborn “I can do it without any help” attitude – basically when you know you’re in a bind and your woman tries to help you and you shut her down. Men also have been injected with that medicine called ‘male pride’. *Disclaimer now some men can be no good pieces of crap and could care less about anyone but themselves*. All in all, even if it means putting their foot in their mouths, or having ‘egg on their face’, as long as a man feels he stuck to…

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    June 18, 2013 /

    A few months ago, I wrote “Doin’ The Most: 11 Examples of Lame Sh*t People Do” and not long after that I wrote “8 Very Lame and Tacky Things People Do (Pt 2)”. I didn’t think I’d do a part 3 for fear of being redundant, but some of the things I’ve seen recently lets me know I have to do a 3rd installment. This time I won’t to the “lame-o-meter”. I’ll leave that up to you the readers. So without any further ado… 1. TREAT FAMILY/CLOSE FRIENDS AS FB SATUS UPDATES Okay let me explain. Let’s say your birthday comes along, right – and instead of your relative or…

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    May 20, 2013 /

    Quite a few news worthy items came up over the last few weeks and once again allow me to give my 2 cents worth, actually a nickel’s worth on what’s going on. If you are offended in any way please don’t be, we wouldn’t be called ‘Opinionated Male’ to begin with right?….Right. So let’s chop it up. I’m coming out. I want the world to know. So current NBA player Jason Collins has come out and revealed he’s a homosexual. So…And?! Now before I get hammered for saying this, let me explain. First off, this shouldn’t have been made a major deal simply because he’s gay. There have been many…

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    Guy Code: 10 Unspoken Rules Men Should Follow

    May 14, 2013 /

    Last week I wrote the post, “10 Rules Women Should Generally Follow” which were my cheeky additions to the unwritten ‘Woman Code’. So of course it’s only fair that I put the spotlight on the men and our unwritten ‘Man Code’ with this post. Here goes. As men go through life sometimes we do things around our friends or other guys that elicits funny looks. Sometimes we don’t realize what we do because it’s either part of our upbringing, or its totally innocent and there’s nothing meant by it. As far as the upbringing though, I would think this especially pertains to men who were raised by women as they tend…

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    Girl Code: 10 Rules Women Should Generally Follow

    May 7, 2013 /

    As men sometimes we get into situations with our women because of several reasons. Maybe we misunderstood what they said. Maybe we don’t understand women as much as we think we should. Sometimes we under appreciate things. I mean sometimes we just plain fcuk up. But sometimes at the end of the day maybe some women just don’t know how to act. Well I’m going to give you a little tidbit on the “woman code” per se’ and ladies if you find yourself doing these things, maybe you should look into the mirror and blame yourself. So here goes and let’s see if you have been guilty of these transgressions. 10.…

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    Here we go with this second installment of Social Hiccups Men Must Avoid. Now I know the title says men but here are some for the ladies as well; although it would be wise for the fellas to pay attention because yall be doing some crazy nonsense. So here goes. 1. ATTEND A PARTY EMPTY HANDED, THEN LEAVE WITH PLATES OF FOOD Now I know there have been some instances when we are notified of a party or gathering at the last minute and we don’t always have time to stop at the store; that happens. If it does, do not expect to make plates or a plate for that…

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