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    What Everyone Isn’t Saying About Foreplay, Online Dating and More

    April 23, 2017 /

    Hey ladies and gentlemen, it’s me again, Miss K.K. with another great guest post for you. B this time I want to share with you my thoughts on the quality of your foreplay, online dating, long distance relationships and the best time to introduce your bae to your parents. If you haven’t read any of my other featured posts 3 Things Men do That Women Really Hate (Pt. 1),  and Pt 2 ‘More Things Men do That Women Really Hate’,  be sure to check them out. Is foreplay overrated? Are you one of those people that skips the pre-workout stretch? Shoves your rump roast in the oven before it’s fully pre-heated? Like…

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    April 19, 2017 /

    “Be ye not unequally yoked”. If you grew up in a Southern home chances are you’ve heard this phrase several times in your life. While the Scripture speaks specifically of marriage, its message is relevant and can be applied to various types of relationships, regardless of your religious leanings. Just to clarify, to be “unequally yoked” simply means that there are differences that exist between two mates that could shorten the lifespan of a relationship. Still unclear? Lucky you because I have compiled my top 5 list of ways you could be unequally yoked and how it could damage your romantic relationship. 5. Political party So you voted for Hillary and…

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    March 11, 2016 /

    Today’s featured guest post is brought to you by Miss. KK. Enjoy!   Midnight Interlude Lying next to me, hearing you breathe Sets me at ease… I draw back the sheets to admire you, your masculinity Drawn to how different you are from me Your body calls, eliciting a sweet response in the form of kisses A silent conversation ensues between us two You reach for me My Adam, your Eve And smile Amazed by how your eyes are shrouded by the shadows of moonlight *Sigh* …I love you  – Miss. KK Miss. KK considers herself a true southerner at heart with an undying love for all things glazed and covered…

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    May 5, 2015 /

    So here you are. You’ve finally moved out of your folks home and got yourself a new pad. No more rules, curfews, answering to anyone (maybe the land lord). You don’t have to share anything, worry about where your things are or who has borrowed them. Nothing. While we are all somewhat dependent on the hackneyed idea of a house-warming, there should be things that you already should own or look into purchasing. So why not start with… 1. IRON This gadget has saved me many a time before going out. While sticking your pants under your mattress to flatten it out won’t do, you may also not have time to put…

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    February 10, 2015 /

    Secret adjective 1. done, made, or conducted without the knowledge of others: secret negotiations. 2. kept from the knowledge of any but the initiated or privileged: a secret password. Men and women all have secrets right? There are just some things out there they just wouldn’t want to share with their beaus. It can be a pre-relationship indiscretion they perpetuated or it could be something potentially damaging to their present relationship especially if it’s newfound. And it could even be something downright embarrassing they are reluctant to share with you. Some men keep things stashed away in their ‘Mandora’s box’ and will either let it out to a precious few or take it to the grave.…

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    February 1, 2015 /

    Guy #1: “Yo I’m telling you relationships and marriage, especially marriages are investments”. Guy #2: “Dawg what are you talking about? You’re jaded man, marriage is and should be based on love…not money”. Guy #1: “No think about it, a marriage is like a business because…” This was a conversation I was involved in but didn’t have much to add as I was rather drawn into the viewpoints of it. I sat there taking it all in listening intently as these brothers used metaphors on marriages and the aspect of money. It went on for a while with lots of good banter back and forth. I had to think and…

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    The Subtle Ways a Man Shows he Adores You

    October 15, 2014 /

    “Her” – What is she? Who is she? My partner in crime Mr. SoBo wrote a masterful piece on “Her – The One Your Parents Never Told you About” and how she can be that man’s kryptonite.  I’m sure plenty ladies sit and wonder to themselves: Was I ever Her? Will I ever be Her? Why haven’t I truly been someone’s Her?  Some women know what it’s like and some don’t. Whether or not it’s deservedly so isn’t really for me to say. Now, not every man will do all these things mentioned below nor will it mean you are any less special to him if he doesn’t do these things. It truly depends…

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    I’ve come to realize that I have had way too many conversations about relationships with women. Between those real life conversations and the bevy of side-eye inducing social media commentary, one thing is for certain – every one of these lovely women considers herself a great catch. Successful. Intelligent. Attractive. Independent and exceptional in bed. According to them, it doesn’t get any better than that. Curiously enough however, apparently it does…according to those men who didn’t answer their relationship call. Is it possible all those men got it wrong? So what’s the problem? Clearly the sexes view life through different lenses. And that’s okay ladies. So although you may feel you have it ‘going on’, it…

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