So you’ve come to terms with the inevitable – you’re dissatisfied with your relationship and/or partner and you want them both to be over. So what do you do?  End your relationship, right? Seems easy enough. Everyone has contemplated a break up and has actually gone through with it at least once in their lifetime. But what is the true outcome once the relationship is over? Do you stand to gain or lose? In my decades on this planet I have gone through, seen, and heard my share of growing pains dealing with the trials and tribulations of the opposite sex. “It’s cheaper to keep her” I heard this expression…