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  • cookout-bbq-OpinionatedMale.com
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    The Black Folk’s Guide to Summertime Cookouts

    June 13, 2017 /

    Summer is fast approaching and the weather is ripe for some outdoor cooking, and I’m sure before the Fall, you would have hosted or went to about a half dozen cookouts (barbecues). I’m also sure you will have plenty of stories to share from which drunk uncle acted up, who flipped the table over in spades, who ‘put their foot’ in the BBQ chicken, down to who dressed scantily clad. However there’s rules and levels to attending BBQ’s. So allow me to share some tips if you please to help you avoid being a bigger jerk than the chicken.   Proper Cookout Etiquette (The Do’s)   BRING SOMETHING OR ASK…

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    April 25, 2017 /

    You’re sitting at the table. The four of you looking around to see who wins. You glance at the score to see it’s deadlocked 240-240 (game to 300), and you need 6 books to score the victory. You look at your hand – 5 diamonds, 4 hearts, 3 clubs, and 1 spade. No aces. You look at your partner and he gives you that look with a slight nod. You’re confident you have a shot of winning. “All I got is one”, you announce. Your partner looks at the two opponents, you, his hand again, and bellows out, “I got 5 [books] and a possible”! Before you can blink, you lose 300-150.…

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    The Undeniable Bond Between Woman and Man | Poem

    March 11, 2016 /

    Today’s featured guest post is brought to you by Miss. KK. Enjoy!   Midnight Interlude Lying next to me, hearing you breathe Sets me at ease… I draw back the sheets to admire you, your masculinity Drawn to how different you are from me Your body calls, eliciting a sweet response in the form of kisses A silent conversation ensues between us two You reach for me My Adam, your Eve And smile Amazed by how your eyes are shrouded by the shadows of moonlight *Sigh* …I love you  – Miss. KK Miss. KK considers herself a true southerner at heart with an undying love for all things glazed and covered…

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    May 27, 2015 /

    Taken from a brotha and a sista who found love for the first time in a long time. Imagine having had stumbled across one bad relationship after another. Having dealt with nothing but drama, infidelity, and just pure heartache especially after loving hard and giving your all to a person. Now you’ve finally come across ‘The One’ and you’ve found that elusive smile. Enjoy this poetic expression. ‘Why Do I Love Thee?’ Why do I love her? She makes me smile every day and keeps my stomach fed She satisfies all my needs when it’s time for bed She’s easy on the eyes and her voice soothes me If I were to step…

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    So here you are. You’ve finally moved out of your folks home and got yourself a new pad. No more rules, curfews, answering to anyone (maybe the land lord). You don’t have to share anything, worry about where your things are or who has borrowed them. Nothing. While we are all somewhat dependent on the hackneyed idea of a house-warming, there should be things that you already should own or look into purchasing. So why not start with… 1. IRON This gadget has saved me many a time before going out. While sticking your pants under your mattress to flatten it out won’t do, you may also not have time to put…

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    You can punch me and you can kick me You can fool me and you can trick me But I still stand You can yell at me, you can curse at me You can throw all including the worst at me But I still stand You can chain me and you can whip me You can make me ‘runner-up-to-your-championship’ me But I still stand You can take away my aspirations and all my hopes You can have me feeling like I’m strung out on dope But I still stand You can take away all my jewels, my money and my cars You can leave me bruised, scratched, and full of…

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    They say I am strong and unyielding with an emotional fortitude thats shielding, yet Her spirit weakens me. Armed with clarity and a firm grasp of reality, I navigate this unpredictable sea I call life, yet I constantly find myself lost in Her eyes. With every glance into the softly beckoning and disarmingly feminine dreamy windows of Her soul, she ensnares my spirit and catapults me into a dreamlike state of my own. Visions – of a future filled with memories, heartfelt “I Do’s” celebrated in ceremonies serenaded with songs of the innocence we long shed, but now welcome back into our lives as a testament of our love – consume me as I drift further into Her gaze.…

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