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    June 26, 2017 /

    Many moons ago, I wrote a piece titled the 7 Myths About Women That Men Really Hate and I’ve always meant to do one on men but never got around to it. Well I’ve gotten around to it and put together a short list of long-standing stereotypes about men that have had their run. Let’s put these myths to bed. Speaking of beds… [Black] men are well endowed I don’t spend a lot of time in men’s locker rooms nor have I been accused of being a wiener-screener or pecker-checker. Having said that, I think black men get a bad rap for having a full…er,…umm…package. Now hold on, I know what you’re…

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    After having written Dear Men, Here’s 6 Simple Ways to Avoid Foolishly Ruining Your Lives, I would be remiss if I didn’t do the same for the softer sex. Let’s get right to it. Have Children too Young ‘Young’ can be open to interpretation and be quite a broad adjective. Allow me to be more specific in terms of what ‘young’ is meant here. And I won’t define it as ‘not being ready’ because you could be 32  years old making a very desirable salary, be totally financially independent and still not ready to have a child. If this were to occur you under these circumstances as described above, at least you would…

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    February 13, 2017 /

    I’m going to rewind to the age of 7. I was young, impressionable, had a ravenous appetite for reading, and I was in carefree mode (as all young kids are). I was watching a show called Zoobilee Zoo – go on Youtube to check it out (if you’re over 30 you should know the show). Anyhow, one of the characters made a mistake that cost him a friendship (for the duration of the show). The obligatory sing-a-long came at the end about making mistakes. The chorus was: “It’s a fact of life that you have to face, People maaaaakeeee mistakes” . There’s nothing wrong with making a mistake. Plain and simple we all tend…

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    August 22, 2016 /

    Hi readers. It’s your homegirl Ms. K.K. crashing the spot as the featured guest blogger for today.  Men, this one is for you so you may want to pay special attention. In your many years of dating the gentler, fairer and I daresay, better sex, you may have come across many instances in which you were sorely befuddled by the consternation of your ‘Boo thang’. Could it be as simple as women are just too complex, or that we really are from two different planets/school of thought? Almost everything you might have thought is true. Women are varied and are as unique as fingerprints or snowflakes, and equally intricate and…

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    Cortonio recently guest blogged on CupidsPlanner.com. So with no further delay, enjoy! Lets take a look at this scenario: You have Kelli, she works as a nurse at a hospital.  She has had her share of hiccups in relationships.  She has pretty much given up on the notion of getting with someone and getting involved in a serious relationship.  Then on the other hand, you have Derek he also works at the same hospital as part of the maintenance crew.  He is recently divorced with a child. Kelli comes to work and she sits in the lobby by the front entrance enjoying her green tea with lemon and a splash of honey. Derek…

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    What he doesn’t know won’t hurt him. Classic line isn’t it? Well since the beginning of time couples have always hid a secret or two from one other; whether it is ‘so harmless’ why even divulge it or something ‘so damaging’ they’ll take it to the grave. Well in this article, I’ll share nine secrets that women keep from their men. Some of these I actually got from conversations over time with the fairer sex. While a few of these may be humorous, some are actually quite serious and true. So let’s chop it up shall we…. THEY ACTUALLY WANT YOU TO HAVE YOUR GUY TIME Yes fellas, it’s true. Women while…

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    November 13, 2013 /

    “I know you Jenny and most of all…. I know women” This was a quote from Bill Bellamy’s character in the movie “How to Be a Player”. If only we all could have that gift. In life we go through different experiences with women, some good some bad. Some women are predictable as Thursday coming after Wednesday, while others are as predictable as the weather. Have you ever seen some women in action and asked yourself, “Why”? At times it may feel as if no matter how hard you try, you can never make any rationale of a woman’s moves. Here’s some things women say or do on a regular that drive men crazy. I will…

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    Myth – noun *any invented story, idea, or concept; *an imaginary or fictitious thing or person; *an unproved or false collective belief that is used to justify a social institution. Generally, people go through life wanting the perfect mate, and if the mate in question doesn’t measure up to their wants and needs then it’s on to the next one. As far as men are concerned, a lot of men as a whole have general misconceptions about women. So before we go any further, let’s clear up some misconceptions in what we call “Myths about women”. Now this isn’t in any way meant to disparage the fairer sex, but some…

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