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A Closet Feak: “Should I Hide my Freaknasty from my new Boyfriend?”
I was contacted to guest blog on CupidsPlanner.com. One of their readers (a young lady) wanted a little ‘advice’. I was asked to give a male’s point of view in response to her letter, and I happily obliged. She wrote: “I am in a new relationship, should I hold back in bed for fear of being judged as a freak? I really enjoy sex and I have the feeling that I might be more experienced than my current boyfriend. I really like him, so I want our first time to be magical. I would not want to mess it up by doing too much or giving him the wrong impression. I like…
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Why Your Fear of ‘Loving too Much’ Kills Your Relationship Goals | The Art of Loving Selfishly
Do you love fearlessly? Or are your relationship goals and dreams being sabotaged by your fear of ‘loving someone too much’? In the game of romance, it’s one thing to proceed with caution, pragmatism and common sense. However, it’s another thing to have unrealistic expectations of relationship paradise when carrying the attitude of “I don’t want to put myself out there like that”. Some of you reading this have built walls around your heart and mind so insurmountably wide and thick, it makes the Great Wall of China look like an old rickety chain-linked fence. Oddly enough, we see the opposite plastered all over the walls, posts and comment sections…