Mr SoBo

YGM! When Is The Right Time To Introduce Bae To Your Child?

YGM! When Is The Right Time To Introduce Bae To Your Child?

Dear Opinionated Male, Before I start I just wanted to let you guys know I enjoy your articles, very thought out and germane. I hadn’t heard of you guys until a very close acquaintance told me about this site so I decided to check you guys out and I must say I am impressed. Awesome! […]

Empower Yourself – 5 Key Steps To ‘Having It All’ As A Young Woman

Empower Yourself – 5 Key Steps To ‘Having It All’ As A Young Woman

[Admin Note:  Today’s featured guest post is brought to you by the letters Q-U-E-E… Ladies and gentlemen, please give another warm Opinionated Male welcome to Queen Sierra.] What is the definition of ‘having it all’ as a young woman? Raised by an incredible black mama I have been encouraged to believe that I am a super woman […]

Caught Up in The Rapture of Roses: The Danger In Losing Sight of Your Dreams

Caught Up in The Rapture of Roses: The Danger In Losing Sight of Your Dreams

Surprise! Surprise! It’s the return of the penmen, Mr. SoBo and Cortonio. We are back in the building. Ready, writing, and as raw as ever; and toting a few new surprises as well. But we’ll get to that later. First thing’s first. In response to the number of emails (and texts) we have received over the months from many […]

The “i” In Black Lives Matter: When 3/5th Becomes Responsible For Their Own Freedom

The “i” In Black Lives Matter: When 3/5th Becomes Responsible For Their Own Freedom

[Admin Note: We have opened the OM stage once again. Today’s featured guest post is brought to you by resident reader Queen Sierra. Please give her a warm Opinionated Male welcome.] When 3/5th becomes a man, the nation is at a stand still. This same nation which once held these truths to be “self-evident, that all […]

Every Man Has This One Weakness – HER

Every Man Has This One Weakness – HER

“Her” They say I am strong and unyielding with an emotional fortitude thats shielding, yet Her spirit weakens me. Armed with clarity and a firm grasp of reality, I navigate this unpredictable sea I call life, yet I constantly find myself lost in Her eyes. With every glance into the softly beckoning and disarmingly feminine dreamy windows of Her soul, […]

What Men Really Want: A Woman’s Guide To Being A Good Catch

What Men Really Want: A Woman’s Guide To Being A Good Catch

I’ve come to realize that I have had way too many conversations about relationships with women. Between those real life conversations and the bevy of side-eye inducing social media commentary, one thing is for certain – every one of these lovely women considers herself a great catch. Successful. Intelligent. Attractive. Independent and exceptional in bed. According to them, it […]

(YGM!) Traditional vs Modern Dating? Finally, The Right Way To Get And Keep A Relationship

(YGM!) Traditional vs Modern Dating? Finally, The Right Way To Get And Keep A Relationship

You’ve Got Male!  Yep, its that time again when we go through our bag of goodies and pick a letter from a reader. This weeks question comes to us from  J.C.. Lets get to it. Thoughts of 21st Century Paths of Relationships “I’ve been a long time commenter and lurker, but this is my first […]