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Why Therapists are the new Black and the 5 Reasons You Need One
Ladies and gentlemen, please welcome guest blogger Jill Badu. You ever see someone with a visible physical ailment and they are always talking or complaining about it? And inevitably you think to yourself: ‘They should really go see someone about that’. Well as a mental health professional myself, I often think that about other people. But every now and then I turn that clinical eye inward and think to myself, ‘girl you need to go see someone, you are all messed up in the head’. At the top of this year I decided this would be a year where I work on becoming my best self. Going to therapy was…
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What Everyone Isn’t Saying About Foreplay, Online Dating and More
Hey ladies and gentlemen, it’s me again, Miss K.K. with another great guest post for you. B this time I want to share with you my thoughts on the quality of your foreplay, online dating, long distance relationships and the best time to introduce your bae to your parents. If you haven’t read any of my other featured posts 3 Things Men do That Women Really Hate (Pt. 1), and Pt 2 ‘More Things Men do That Women Really Hate’, be sure to check them out. Is foreplay overrated? Are you one of those people that skips the pre-workout stretch? Shoves your rump roast in the oven before it’s fully pre-heated? Like…
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3 More Things Guys do That Women Really Hate (Pt. 2)
‘Sup readers! It’s ya girl Miss K.K. back again with another awesome guest post. If you read my last featured post 3 Things Men do That Women Really Hate (Pt. 1), I covered some of the mind numbing, borderline hair pulling things brothas do. Now sit back and check out the sequel. WORKAHOLISM vs. LAZINESS Both of these will drive your damsel crazy. Like, Jack Nicholson “The Shining” crazy. If I can work two jobs and you work one or none, Negro you should at least be able to take out the trash and mop the floor. Conversely, if I can make time for a date night, you should be…
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3 Things Men do That Women Really Hate (Pt. 1)
Hi readers. It’s your homegirl Ms. K.K. crashing the spot as the featured guest blogger for today. Men, this one is for you so you may want to pay special attention. In your many years of dating the gentler, fairer and I daresay, better sex, you may have come across many instances in which you were sorely befuddled by the consternation of your ‘Boo thang’. Could it be as simple as women are just too complex, or that we really are from two different planets/school of thought? Almost everything you might have thought is true. Women are varied and are as unique as fingerprints or snowflakes, and equally intricate and…
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5 Ways Young Black Women can Empower Themselves and “Have it All”
Queen Sierra back here again with another guest feature. This time I want to empower young black women who aspire to achieve greatness in both their lives and careers by providing them with a short list of what I refer to as the ‘5 key Steps to Having it All’. Personally, I found after applying these 5 simple tips to my own day-to-day, they proved to be extremely beneficial in both the personal and professional areas of my life. I can’t promise miracles for anyone of you reading this. However, I am hopeful you will receive some benefit from my journey and self-discovery, or at the very least, this short…
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How can Blacks Become Responsible for Their own Freedom? The "I" in Black Lives Matter.
I am Queen Sierra and as your featured guest blogger for todays post When 3/5th becomes a man, the nation is at a stand still. This same nation which once held these truths to be “self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness”. The key word I want to focus your attention on here is ‘liberty’. Liberty is defined as the state of being free within society from oppressive restrictions imposed by authority on one’s way of life, behavior, or political views. In the case of blacks in America, it…
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Mind Games Women Play with Men – Why Cuddling is for Teddy Bears
Once again, welcome guest blogger K. Ferdinand.] Mind Games: You Say You Gonna FCUK But You Really Wanna Cuddle About a week ago I received a phone call (non business hours) from a beautiful woman I know who was asking me to come over. She was talking all this jazz about what she wanted me to do to her in the bed and how she wanted to put me in her mouth, etc. So you can only imagine the internal excitement that filled my mind as I was elated by the mere fact that I was going to get it crackin’ with a ‘Bad joint’ (beautiful woman). So I tell her…
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Should Black men Keep Their Sexuality Hidden in the Workplace?
[Admin Note: Ladies and gentlemen, please welcome to the stage once again, K. Ferdinand.] “I’m coming out…. Coming!…I want the world to know gotta let it show…”. I’m sorry, but that seems to be the new National Anthem these days. Unless you’ve been living in a cave, the latest news is about Mizzou’s defensive lineman Michael Sam coming out the closet revealing to the sports world that he will be the first openly gay athlete to [actively] compete in a major American sport. Journalists and the media have been in a frenzy trying to figure out how he will be accepted in the NFL. More importantly, how will Michael Sam’s sexuality affect…
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Love Conundrum: Is Love REALLY Unconditional?
Admin Note: Please welcome guest blogger K. Ferdinand. Enjoy. So I was talking to my father last night and we were discussing each other’s Valentine’s day plans. My father and mother have been divorced ever since I was a baby, so the type of relationship that my father and I have is more of a friendship than of the traditional father and son. Overall, I cherish much of his advice, and seek his wisdom often to get through many situations. He was telling me of his lofty plans. His plan comes down to which one of his women is going to shoot cupids arrow on him, and enjoy his company…
