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Should a Man’s Past Drive a Woman Away?
In my recent post “Should A Woman’s Salty Past Be A Deal Breaker?” I touched on some skeletons that women may have in their shoe closets and whether or not they (the skeletons) should play peek a boo; and if so, should a man leave or continue to pursue something with the woman. So I’ll be doing the same with the not so fairer sex, and I’ll incorporate the same rating system with different vernacular although I won’t rate them. I’ll leave that up to YOU the readers. For each scenario is it: * Yay? * Nay? * Run away? So people, what say you? Here goes… 1. Was gang involved This…
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Should Black men Keep Their Sexuality Hidden in the Workplace?
[Admin Note: Ladies and gentlemen, please welcome to the stage once again, K. Ferdinand.] “I’m coming out…. Coming!…I want the world to know gotta let it show…”. I’m sorry, but that seems to be the new National Anthem these days. Unless you’ve been living in a cave, the latest news is about Mizzou’s defensive lineman Michael Sam coming out the closet revealing to the sports world that he will be the first openly gay athlete to [actively] compete in a major American sport. Journalists and the media have been in a frenzy trying to figure out how he will be accepted in the NFL. More importantly, how will Michael Sam’s sexuality affect…
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Should a Woman’s Past be a Relationship Deal Breaker?
Before I write another word let’s start with this scene from Coming to America starring Eddie Murphy and Arsenio Hall. So with the comedy aside, which of those women (except Arsenio in drag of course) would be a turn off for you based on their situation? There are brothers (and sistahs too, don’t get the game twisted) that would let the other off real quick should they be privy to some unsavory info. Question is: Should a woman’s past be a deal breaker when meeting someone or starting a new relationship? Let’s delve into some scenario’s shall we? We’ll break them up into 3 categories: * Deal * No deal…
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12 Social Mistakes Men Must Avoid Making
In life we do and say many things. There are times we don’t think before we speak and our foot winds up in our mouths, or we say things we don’t really mean just to get out of an awkward situation. When navigating through this road we call “Life”, here are some things that’ll help you avoid the breakdown lane or getting pulled over by the social police. COMPLIMENTING SOMEONE’S CHILD We all see cute babies. Some are cuter than others, and we tend to compliment the mother or father for having said cute baby. Sometimes we might tell a parent they have a cute little girl in regards to…
