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11 Awkward Questions Women ask Guys | If you Need to Know Just Ask
I have been asked a lot of questions by women at different stages in my life. Most notably, questions about men, our idiosyncrasies and our tendencies. So I decided to create this mini-series called, “If You Need to Know Just Ask”, or IYNTKJA for short. lol. So without further ado, here are some of those questions women have asked men, as well as my honest answers from, well you guessed it,… a man’s perspective. 1. When losing hair, why not just let it go? Well, I’m on both sides of the fence myself. I have two pieces of logic of thought on this: A) I totally agree with the ‘let…
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Get the Relationship You Want in 8 Steps – Saving Black Love
Over the course of a lifetime people go through relationships like underwear, while others have one that lasts a lifetime. There are people who try to fix their romances by living in a therapists office, or going by what others think. There are even some who are just fine with pets as company. Well, I think people should simply use some common sense. Oh yeah, and while you’re at it, read the following advice below. 1. Let go your sense of entitlement I understand that people of a certain generation tend to be old-fashioned and have certain expectations of their man/woman. That certainly hasn’t gotten lost in translation. However, this…
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Why Love is Blind and Cupid Makes you Stupid
Ladies and gents, have you ever been with your love, your everything, your world but things started getting ‘funny’ and you asked yourself “Is it me?” Have you ever tried putting things together and said to yourself, ” Things aren’t adding up”; you couldn’t understand what was going on? You ask yourself many questions but get no answers. Or maybe you try to analyze, elaborate, and lament on things that are going in a downward spiral in your relationship. Well here is my ode to you. Love is blind… …when your man stay beatin’ on you Just when you think he’s loyal there he is cheatin’ on you Love is…
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When Playing ‘Hard to get’ Goes Horribly Wrong
Fellas, have you ever had that special someone who would have gone to the ends of the world to please you but you paid her no mind and she found someone else? I’m going to take you on a journey of a man who made the same mistake. Sit back and enjoy. ‘Plain And Simple…I Fcuked Up’ You opened yourself up to me… …and probably wondered why You would call me at random times simply to say “Hi”! I remembered two nights ago you called just to hear my voice But I didn’t want to talk much anyway, so you had no choice Yesterday you sent me a text saying, “I hope…
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Is She Worth ‘Putting a Ring on It’?
What type of woman are you (dating)? Women and Sports have become a way of life in today’s society. So in this post I’m going to put them both in a sort of ‘sports perspective’ since we all participate in it in some way shape or form. As you get more into the sport you enjoy watching, you will see that teams have franchise players, superstars, stars, mid-level players, and bench players. I did a previous article “All Gold Everything: What Type Of Man Are You (Dating)?” I’m going to do the same with the ladies, but I’ll spin it a little. So gentlemen, what TYPE of woman do you deal…
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Women’s Fashions That Turn Men Off
“What is she wearing?” “She really came out wearing that?” “Where did she get that?” If these questions have floated around in your head, what she had on was definitely a turn off to you I’m sure. Now I’m no guru on what women should wear or what goes with what. Don’t get it twisted however, I know what I like to see women wearing and these 10 things are not it. I’m sure most of you can agree, so here goes. 1. UGGS that lean Now, I’m not a fan of UGGS in the first place. For one they are ugly. Two they are ugly, and three,… they are ugly. …
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Shacking Up: What it Really Means When a Man Considers Moving in With You
People like to hold up the relatively few differences in how men and women perceive the world as unassailable proof that the gulf between the sexes is so wide that men and women may as well be from different planets and accordingly fashioned in the image of opposing gods. The truth is we have way more in common than not. The common strand of humanity that binds us is much stronger than our differences. Now that I’ve gotten that out of the way… holy fcuk, sometime women are so off base with how they assume men see the world I question if we evolved from the same ancestors. I’ve talked…
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Top 8 Signs Your Hair Needs to be Done
You ever sit there and think, “Damn. I got a hair don’t” or ,”This is a tough do“? Well here are the top 8 signs your joint needs some serious TLC. Now this isn’t to disparage those who like it au’ naturale, but in the end you can’t just walk around with your hair like who done it, why and HOW? 1. WHEN COMBING YOUR HAIR IT SOUNDS LIKE SOMEONE’S BITING INTO A PIECE OF FRUIT You know that sound when your biting into an apple or pear? Well if your comb makes that sound when you’re trying to comb it…yeah….you need some assistance, and for that matter… 2. YOU’VE BROKEN…
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Playing Relationship Chess – Her Strategic Moves and my Toothbrush Rant
I’m not a conspiracy theorist. Really I’m not. Just because you can’t figure something out before the commercial break ends doesn’t mean that some clandestine organization headed by a shadowy figure with a raspy voice, a computer from the 80s and a cat that will clearly have intimacy issues with its next owner is responsible. But there really is no other logical explanation for how every single woman tests the boundaries of a new relationship in the exact same way. Without fail, every time I’m in a relationship that enters the sleepover without titles phase I wake up to the same sophistic paradox; a nonindigenous toothbrush belligerently positioned in my…
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8 Ridiculously Lame and Tacky Things People Do (Pt II) | Doin’ the Most
Ladies and fellas, we previously explored a world in which people do things that make you go, “hmmmm” (Doin’ the Most: 11 Examples of Lame Shyt People Do). Well this is the follow up (part II). Again, we’re going to go with the Lame-O-Meter: 1 to 10. ’10’ being a total a**clown and ‘1’ being, “not a big deal, but you could have avoided it”. 1. Internet Thuggin’/Internet Beefs Lame-O-Meter: 10 WHY: The actual term itself gives it a 10. But listen, if you’re going to sit there on a computer in a chatroom and go toe to toe with someone keyboard-ically, especially if you’re the one that instigated it,…
