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Poetry, Sex & Relationships

The One – What Your Parents Never Told you About Her | Poem

They say I am strong and unyielding with an emotional fortitude thats shielding, yet Her spirit weakens me. Armed with clarity and a firm grasp of reality, I navigate this unpredictable sea…

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September 29, 2014
Guest Post, Sex & Relationships

Mind Games Women Play with Men – Why Cuddling is for Teddy Bears

Once again, welcome  guest blogger K. Ferdinand.] Mind Games: You Say You Gonna FCUK But You Really Wanna Cuddle About a week ago I received a phone call (non business…

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March 13, 2014
Sex & Relationships

The Subtle Ways a Man Shows he Adores You

“Her” – What is she? Who is she? My partner in crime Mr. SoBo wrote a masterful piece on “Her – The One Your Parents Never Told you About” and how…

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October 15, 2014
Sex & Relationships
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Society & Culture
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Our Advice
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  • Social Etiquette

    8 Ridiculously Lame and Tacky Things People Do (Pt II) | Doin’ the Most

    February 25, 2013 /

    Ladies and fellas, we previously explored a world in which people do things that make you go, “hmmmm” (Doin’ the Most: 11 Examples of Lame Shyt People Do). Well this is the follow up (part II). Again, we’re going to go with the Lame-O-Meter: 1 to 10. ’10’ being a total a**clown and ‘1’ being, “not a big deal, but you could have avoided it”. 1. Internet Thuggin’/Internet Beefs Lame-O-Meter: 10 WHY:  The actual term itself gives it a 10. But listen, if you’re going to sit there on a computer in a chatroom and go toe to toe with someone keyboard-ically, especially if you’re the one that instigated it,…

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    Fashion,  Satire,  Social Etiquette

    Hoodrats & Headwraps: Hot Ghetto Mess or Unapologetic Fashionista?

    February 22, 2013 /

    For those who enjoy pointing out the obvious, there will be sweeping generalizations, vacuuming assumptions, mopping presumptions and Swiffering aspersions made throughout this entire post.  A dichotomy that is both essential and non-essential to the overall premise. Enjoy with three grains of salt.  As the world turns, and as we meander through the days of our lives, we observe relationships in action every single day. Many of our relationship observations (and observations in general) are cognitive. However, others are observed more passively. In fact, I’m inclined to believe that the majority of our observations in life are done passively. In other words, we don’t notice sh*t, but we really do…

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  • Politics,  Race

    Black Democratic Voters Unchained, Republicans Unchanged: Politics as Usual

    February 19, 2013 /

    In the wake of a paradigm shifting election where evangelical Christians voted overwhelmingly for a devout Mormon, a black man was reelected as president in spite of a stalling economy and the long discussed demographic clout of the growing Hispanic population was finally felt, one voting bloc remained unchanged; black people still continued to vote overwhelmingly democratic. With Charles Krauthammer leading the charge, bringing the Hispanic vote into the republican fold has been agreed upon prescription for future Republican success (and understandably so), but with margins so thin in swing states, why no push to bring the naturally conservative black voter back into the party of Lincoln? Understanding why black…

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  • Social Etiquette

    11 Examples of Lame Things People Do – Doin’ the Most

    February 14, 2013 /

    You ever go out on the town? Go for a drive? Go to the mall? Go to the club? Or just simply just chill at the crib and see how people flex and you say to yourself, “That’s lame”? Well I’m going to hit on quite a few and I’m sure some of y’all can agree.  I also have a ‘lame-o-meter’ and I’m gonna grade them on a scale from 1 to 10: 10 being ‘total a$$ clown’ and 1 being ‘not so bad, but you could have avoided it’. Let’s start shall we? 1. While dancing with a girl at the club, your friend walks by and you give him the “look at…

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    Sex & Relationships

    And in Last Place Here Comes Mr. Nice Guy, Again. But Why?

    February 11, 2013 /

    Ladies have you ever been with a guy who does everything the ‘right way’ but you seem to tire of him quickly? Have you ever been with a guy who’s a pure gentlemen and damn near kisses the ground you walk on but still not enough? Ok well let’s peep the following scenario shall we? Cliff, a high school principal, is a handsome guy in his early 30’s. He makes good money, has no children and owns a dog. He is somewhere between a gold and platinum if you read the 1st article “All gold Everything: What Type of Man are you Dating?“.  Deidre who is also in her early 30’s, is…

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  • Family,  Sex & Relationships

    Reflections on the Choices Some Young Women Make – Letters to my Sistah(s)

    February 6, 2013 /

    Dear sister, How are you doing today? I am okay. How was the club last night? Yeah I saw you with your girls. You were in the middle of the dance floor grinding on each other, making all the thirsty guys who don’t know their head from their a** drool with excitement.  Then you went to the bar and did shots of patron with your girls acting a fool. I over heard you saying something about your momma watching the baby tonight; your grandmamma watching the baby two nights ago; and how you trynna get one of their fathers to watch both of the kids so you can hit up the club…

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    Sports

    What If – The Sports Scenarios we’ll Never Know

    February 4, 2013 /

    I’m sure there are many sports fans out there, whether you’re a casual fan, a rabid hard core fan, or a “used to be” fan. And I can say there were a lot of heart breaking, soul crushing, gut wrenching moments where you did everything from bite every nail off your fingers relegating them to stubs, to praying and damn near swearing off sports altogether. I know your hometown team has probably been in the dumps for many years, or some have been riding high (i.e., the sports fans for the City of Boston has named themselves “title town” for their 7 sports titles from 2001-2011). Did you ever sit…

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    Race,  Television & Movies

    Cultural Stereotypes in Media – Is This Jamaican Accent Phony, Funny or Offensive?

    February 1, 2013 /

    Jamaican me crazy. Over the last few days, there has been a lot of talk in the mainstream media (and social media outlets) surrounding a particular advertisement slated to air during the largest viewed sporting event in America – The Super Bowl. The 60 second ad spot is from German auto-manufacturer, Volkswagen, and features an office worker attempting to spread cheer to his fellow colleagues during what appears to be a very low morale day at the office. Seems innocent enough. Right? Well he speaks with a very thick and noticeable accent to which one might respond, “Nothing wrong with that. Lots of people have accents”. It’s a fake ‘Jamaican’ accent,…

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    Is Reality TV the Reason We’re Losing our Values?

    January 30, 2013 /

    From (RHOA) Ratchet Housewives of America, to Lust & Hip Pop, to Jump shot Jump Offs -aka- Flagrant Foul Floozies, reality television has made its mark on modern day culture and it doesn’t appear to be going anywhere anytime soon. The aforementioned are just a few creative examples of countless shows that have surfaced over the years as networks continue to churn them out faster than you can say, “Gone with the wind fabulous”. Given the overwhelming popularity of the genre, there is no question that reality television continues to command our interests while dominating television airwaves. Now what do these shows have in common? Well, apart from the obvious…

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    Will Pro Wrestling Ever Suplex it’s Racial Stereotypes?

    January 22, 2013 /

    Picture this: Circa 1980’s. You’re in Madison Square Garden (MSG). The crowd noise is deafening, there’s electricity in the air, it’s crazy. At a New York Knicks game you ask? No. Or maybe you’re at a New York Rangers game? No. You are at a WWF event. This was back during a time when Pro Wrestling transcended sports and it was an extremely hot commodity. So you’re in MSG, the mecca of Pro Wrestling. You hear the bass thumping, and the speakers blaring. You hear the familiar song of “Grab Them Cakes!!” and you see Sylvester Ritter (known at that time as the Junk Yard Dog) coming down the aisle ready to grapple.…

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