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10 Things Women do that Make no Damn Sense to Men
“I know you Jenny and most of all…. I know women” This was a quote from Bill Bellamy’s character in the movie “How to Be a Player”. If only we all could have that gift. In life we go through different experiences with women, some good some bad. Some women are predictable as Thursday coming after Wednesday, while others are as predictable as the weather. Have you ever seen some women in action and asked yourself, “Why”? At times it may feel as if no matter how hard you try, you can never make any rationale of a woman’s moves. Here’s some things women say or do on a regular that drive men crazy. I will…
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A Closet Feak: “Should I Hide my Freaknasty from my new Boyfriend?”
I was contacted to guest blog on CupidsPlanner.com. One of their readers (a young lady) wanted a little ‘advice’. I was asked to give a male’s point of view in response to her letter, and I happily obliged. She wrote: “I am in a new relationship, should I hold back in bed for fear of being judged as a freak? I really enjoy sex and I have the feeling that I might be more experienced than my current boyfriend. I really like him, so I want our first time to be magical. I would not want to mess it up by doing too much or giving him the wrong impression. I like…
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Questions all Women Want Men to Answer (Pt 3) | IYNTKJA
Welcome to the third installment of “Ladies, If You Need To Know Just Ask”. I previously did a part 1 (11 Awkward Questions Women ask Guys) and part 2 (10 Relationship Questions Women ask Men) , so check those out for your reading pleasure. Anyway, I was recently approached with some more questions presented to me from the fairer sex. I’m sure some, if not all of these questions may relate to many of you; or maybe a few of you readers were simply just as curious for answers yourself. Several of these questions I found rather thought provoking, and some others not so much. Either way, here goes this weeks list…
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11 Awkward Questions Women ask Guys | If you Need to Know Just Ask
I have been asked a lot of questions by women at different stages in my life. Most notably, questions about men, our idiosyncrasies and our tendencies. So I decided to create this mini-series called, “If You Need to Know Just Ask”, or IYNTKJA for short. lol. So without further ado, here are some of those questions women have asked men, as well as my honest answers from, well you guessed it,… a man’s perspective. 1. When losing hair, why not just let it go? Well, I’m on both sides of the fence myself. I have two pieces of logic of thought on this: A) I totally agree with the ‘let…
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Get the Relationship You Want in 8 Steps – Saving Black Love
Over the course of a lifetime people go through relationships like underwear, while others have one that lasts a lifetime. There are people who try to fix their romances by living in a therapists office, or going by what others think. There are even some who are just fine with pets as company. Well, I think people should simply use some common sense. Oh yeah, and while you’re at it, read the following advice below. 1. Let go your sense of entitlement I understand that people of a certain generation tend to be old-fashioned and have certain expectations of their man/woman. That certainly hasn’t gotten lost in translation. However, this…
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Why Love is Blind and Cupid Makes you Stupid
Ladies and gents, have you ever been with your love, your everything, your world but things started getting ‘funny’ and you asked yourself “Is it me?” Have you ever tried putting things together and said to yourself, ” Things aren’t adding up”; you couldn’t understand what was going on? You ask yourself many questions but get no answers. Or maybe you try to analyze, elaborate, and lament on things that are going in a downward spiral in your relationship. Well here is my ode to you. Love is blind… …when your man stay beatin’ on you Just when you think he’s loyal there he is cheatin’ on you Love is…
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Is Your Manhood in Check? Things That Make a Man Look Weak
Men in general since the beginning of time have been instilled with the the gene to be the provider, protector, and that stubborn “I can do it without any help” attitude – basically when you know you’re in a bind and your woman tries to help you and you shut her down. Men also have been injected with that medicine called ‘male pride’. *Disclaimer now some men can be no good pieces of crap and could care less about anyone but themselves*. All in all, even if it means putting their foot in their mouths, or having ‘egg on their face’, as long as a man feels he stuck to…
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When Playing ‘Hard to get’ Goes Horribly Wrong
Fellas, have you ever had that special someone who would have gone to the ends of the world to please you but you paid her no mind and she found someone else? I’m going to take you on a journey of a man who made the same mistake. Sit back and enjoy. ‘Plain And Simple…I Fcuked Up’ You opened yourself up to me… …and probably wondered why You would call me at random times simply to say “Hi”! I remembered two nights ago you called just to hear my voice But I didn’t want to talk much anyway, so you had no choice Yesterday you sent me a text saying, “I hope…
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Is She Worth ‘Putting a Ring on It’?
What type of woman are you (dating)? Women and Sports have become a way of life in today’s society. So in this post I’m going to put them both in a sort of ‘sports perspective’ since we all participate in it in some way shape or form. As you get more into the sport you enjoy watching, you will see that teams have franchise players, superstars, stars, mid-level players, and bench players. I did a previous article “All Gold Everything: What Type Of Man Are You (Dating)?” I’m going to do the same with the ladies, but I’ll spin it a little. So gentlemen, what TYPE of woman do you deal…
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Men’s Fashions That Turn Women Off
Fellas/Gents if you will, we’ve all been there. We at one time or another have worn stuff that may have cost us a chance at a female. I’m sure we were even offenders with the fashion police, or we had our own “wanted” posters up. Ladies this is for you. You ever see a dude and say to yourself , “He’s cute, but why is he wearing that?! That brotha can’t dress”. Or maybe you have seen a dude while out with your girls and had a good laugh at his expense. Fellas if you’re the butt of jokes because of your outfit(s) or had weird blank stares when you…
