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The Undeniable Bond Between Woman and Man | Poem
Today’s featured guest post is brought to you by Miss. KK. Enjoy! Midnight Interlude Lying next to me, hearing you breathe Sets me at ease… I draw back the sheets to admire you, your masculinity Drawn to how different you are from me Your body calls, eliciting a sweet response in the form of kisses A silent conversation ensues between us two You reach for me My Adam, your Eve And smile Amazed by how your eyes are shrouded by the shadows of moonlight *Sigh* …I love you – Miss. KK Miss. KK considers herself a true southerner at heart with an undying love for all things glazed and covered…
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What do you Appreciate Most About the Person You’re With?
Taken from a brotha and a sista who found love for the first time in a long time. Imagine having had stumbled across one bad relationship after another. Having dealt with nothing but drama, infidelity, and just pure heartache especially after loving hard and giving your all to a person. Now you’ve finally come across ‘The One’ and you’ve found that elusive smile. Enjoy this poetic expression. ‘Why Do I Love Thee?’ Why do I love her? She makes me smile every day and keeps my stomach fed She satisfies all my needs when it’s time for bed She’s easy on the eyes and her voice soothes me If I were to step…
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5 Relationship Crushing Arguments Every Couple Should Avoid
There’s nothing more commonplace in a relationship than disagreements (Unless you two share a brain. And that’s not healthy…..to ME anyway. I can’t speak for or on anyone else). There are some disagreements that end when both parties simply agree to disagree. There are simple debates, and then there are outright arguments. Truth be told, they can sometimes become very debilitating and detrimental to relationships. Allow me to preface this by stating there’s nothing wrong with arguments sometimes. They can be healthy as it’s showing that you both are indeed human – not perfect – and just are opposite in some ways. In addition, it demonstrates that you are willing to fight…
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The Subtle Ways a Man Shows he Adores You
“Her” – What is she? Who is she? My partner in crime Mr. SoBo wrote a masterful piece on “Her – The One Your Parents Never Told you About” and how she can be that man’s kryptonite. I’m sure plenty ladies sit and wonder to themselves: Was I ever Her? Will I ever be Her? Why haven’t I truly been someone’s Her? Some women know what it’s like and some don’t. Whether or not it’s deservedly so isn’t really for me to say. Now, not every man will do all these things mentioned below nor will it mean you are any less special to him if he doesn’t do these things. It truly depends…
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Telephone Love – What Everyone Misses About the ’90’s
Guys: “Yo Is that Tamika? Damn she got fly over the summer!” Gals: “Who’s that new dude in our science class? He’s cute.” Remember the days when you met or saw that crush; your first crush? That person who walked in the room and instantly grabbed your attention? It could have been the way they walked, talked, dressed, or smelled. And it didn’t even matter whether or not he/she was unattractive to others but to you he was fine and she was dope. And if they were dope that was better for you (Yes I am taking terms from yesteryear). I have had them; they had me; you have had…
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Love Conundrum: Is Love REALLY Unconditional?
Admin Note: Please welcome guest blogger K. Ferdinand. Enjoy. So I was talking to my father last night and we were discussing each other’s Valentine’s day plans. My father and mother have been divorced ever since I was a baby, so the type of relationship that my father and I have is more of a friendship than of the traditional father and son. Overall, I cherish much of his advice, and seek his wisdom often to get through many situations. He was telling me of his lofty plans. His plan comes down to which one of his women is going to shoot cupids arrow on him, and enjoy his company…
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7 Signs you Watch too Much Porn
Ladies and Gents, I am sure there are moments in your life when you are single, there’s no one on the radar screen and you get these ‘urges’ so to speak. Ladies, there are some of you that don’t want to ‘just give it up’ to just anyone, especially if you just came out of a relationship or have been burned by someone recently–figuratively not literally of course,…I hope. You’re probably not even feeling sexy enough to entertain the thought of intercourse at the moment. As far as the Men, well you have your share of reasons. For one, yes, you are single and there’s no one on the radar…
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Get the Relationship You Want in 8 Steps – Saving Black Love
Over the course of a lifetime people go through relationships like underwear, while others have one that lasts a lifetime. There are people who try to fix their romances by living in a therapists office, or going by what others think. There are even some who are just fine with pets as company. Well, I think people should simply use some common sense. Oh yeah, and while you’re at it, read the following advice below. 1. Let go your sense of entitlement I understand that people of a certain generation tend to be old-fashioned and have certain expectations of their man/woman. That certainly hasn’t gotten lost in translation. However, this…
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Why Love is Blind and Cupid Makes you Stupid
Ladies and gents, have you ever been with your love, your everything, your world but things started getting ‘funny’ and you asked yourself “Is it me?” Have you ever tried putting things together and said to yourself, ” Things aren’t adding up”; you couldn’t understand what was going on? You ask yourself many questions but get no answers. Or maybe you try to analyze, elaborate, and lament on things that are going in a downward spiral in your relationship. Well here is my ode to you. Love is blind… …when your man stay beatin’ on you Just when you think he’s loyal there he is cheatin’ on you Love is…
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Breaking up is Never Easy – When Ending Your Relationship is Inevitable
Gents (and ladies too), have you ever had the love of your life but as time passed things weren’t working out? You wanted to leave but couldn’t find the words to do so, so you wished it would all just go away but it didn’t and you had to face the music? Well take a little stroll into the eyes of this young man who had to do the same thing to his honey. Leaving a Lover: All I Can Say Is, “I’m Sorry” I don’t know how… …to say goodbye The words won’t come no matter how hard I try It seems every time I look you in the…